What this is
This is a small experiment.
I get a lot of messages. Most of them sound the same.
So instead of answering endlessly, I built something that does the first step for me.
Before you talk to me, you talk to my AI.
Think of it as a better first impression.
Privacy
Your conversation is private.
No one is reading along.
Not me. Not anyone else.
Your messages are not stored as a conversation I can review later.
What happens here stays between you and the AI.
How to approach this
This is not a test.
There are no “correct” answers.
But there is such a thing as effort, personality and substance.
You don’t need to impress.
You just need to be real.
A few honest sentences are worth more than a perfectly polished paragraph.
If you’re curious, thoughtful, or a bit different — that’s already a good sign.
Tips (especially if you’re on your phone)
You can talk to the AI like a normal person.
You can:
– switch languages anytime
– use voice input instead of typing
– ask the AI to rephrase something
– say “make this shorter” or “ask me something better”
If you’re not sure what to say:
Just start with who you are, what you want, and why you’re here.
That’s already more than most people do.
About the AI
The gatekeeper is based on a custom GPT I created.
It doesn’t know everything.
It only knows what I decided to teach it.
Its job is not to judge you.
Its job is to understand whether there is something real behind your words.
What happens if you get through
If the conversation works — genuinely works —
you’ll receive a code word.
That code word is your key.
I only continue conversations with people who can give it back to me.
It’s how I filter for real interest, effort, and attention.
If you convince the gatekeeper,
you’ve already convinced me enough to take the next step.
One last thing
This only works if you actually engage.
If you treat it like small talk,
it will feel like small talk.
If you treat it like a real conversation,
it might turn into one.